Wednesday, January 21, 2009

David R. Sassmann

Yesterday was a very sad day. I had to say good-bye to one of my greatest supporters--my father-in-law, David.

The loss was unexpected and my heart is aching.

David and I met over 17 years ago. I don't recall our exact first meeting, but it may have been at the furniture store in Belle during one of my visits from school in Springfield. What I do recall is being welcomed with open arms from the very beginning.

Though he may not have liked every decision Scott and I made, he let us live our lives. Did we mess up sometimes, sure. But he was always there with suggestions, ready to lend a hand if we needed it. He was proud of us and never failed to let us know that.

He had so much left to do and see and I'm sad, mostly for the girls. There's so much he'll miss and it's so unfair.

But I know he'd expect me to be strong. We'll reminisce over photos and I'll remind the girls often of his love and generosity.

Pop, you will be greatly missed. I love you.

2 comments:

Eric & Becky said...

David was such a great man and I hope the girls always remember that. Everyone that met David was very lucky to know him. He was so warm and had the biggest heart. I love you all and am in awe of your strength. Think of the good times with David and know that God has gained a good man.

Pat said...

I didn't know David very well, just the few times I was fortunate for him to be there when we happen to come up. But from the few things I do remember he was really great with the girls and truly loved them as he did both of you. I know it is hard to see your kids make mistakes and suffer the consequences but I know for a fact that he was proud of Scott and his family. My heart goes out to you all. May God give you the strength that you need to make it thru.
Aunt Pat