David R. Sassmann

Yesterday was a very sad day. I had to say good-bye to one of my greatest supporters--my father-in-law, David.

The loss was unexpected and my heart is aching.

David and I met over 17 years ago. I don't recall our exact first meeting, but it may have been at the furniture store in Belle during one of my visits from school in Springfield. What I do recall is being welcomed with open arms from the very beginning.

Though he may not have liked every decision Scott and I made, he let us live our lives. Did we mess up sometimes, sure. But he was always there with suggestions, ready to lend a hand if we needed it. He was proud of us and never failed to let us know that.

He had so much left to do and see and I'm sad, mostly for the girls. There's so much he'll miss and it's so unfair.

But I know he'd expect me to be strong. We'll reminisce over photos and I'll remind the girls often of his love and generosity.

Pop, you will be greatly missed. I love you.

Happy New Year

The new year is in full swing and I'm extremely happy to say good-bye to 2008.

With all of the pain it caused, I can say that having cancer brought me closer to my family and put me back in touch many of those I have missed--for that I am grateful!

Happy 2009! I look forward to a much better year!